Sue Sweeney - January 21, 2018

What if the Grass is Greener Over There?

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What would you do if you learned the world was ending next week? Our answers to that question reveal our ‘happiness gap’ – how far we are from the life we really want. The Corinthian Christians asked Paul whether they should marry given the trials of their culture and the immanent return (they think!) of Jesus. Paul’s advice to them is to be content where they are. Rather than focusing on the greener grass over there, we should focus on what God is calling us to right where we are.

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Well, it’s almost Christmas. And I assume that, like me, your Christmas is going to look really different this year. For the last six Christmas Eves, when we’re finished with our Christmas Eve worship, Amanda and I have joined John and Vanessa Hewitt and their family for a Tex-Mex Christmas Eve feast.

We’re not doing that this year because of the pandemic.

And ever since I’ve been in ministry, I’ve not travelled for Christmas – I made a commitment to spend Christmas and Easter – our two most important holidays – with my church family. So on Christmas day, Amanda and I always go see 2-3 movies in the theater, and then start watching all our Christmas must-watches (like Love Actually, Die Hard and Christmas Vacation).

A reality we had to face this year is that we’re not going to have our Christmas traditions thanks to COVID. No Tex-Mex Christmas Eve with dear friends. No movie theaters on Christmas Day.

I know we’re all in that same boat, and now – just days before Christmas, it’s hitting us hard. Family we’re not seeing. Trips we’re not taking. Necks we’re not hugging. Presents arriving by mail rather than down chimneys.

And, again, I know we’ve all known this for a while, but it’s really starting to sink in now. And over the next week, it’s going to be even more painfully real.

So today, on this final Advent Sunday, let’s explore how we celebrate Christmas in the midst of this disappointment. We’re going to do that as we have throughout this series, by charting out the intersection of the four lectionary passages for this week. And what we’ll see is that the good news of Advent is that God meets us in our disappointment. God’s no stranger to Plan B, C or even D.

God is with us, and we can know God is working for our good. Even when Christmas doesn’t go like we thought.

Join us Sunday as we look for God in our present moment, despite our disrupted plans!

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